Identify What Women Want To Understand Them Better

It’s tough to understand what women actually want and even tougher to do so when you are a guy. But you can say I am an exception to this general belief. Despite being a guy I understand women much better than my other friends. Maybe, my years of dating experience with some of the very interesting women or my upbringing with three elder sisters and my mum have contributed towards my understanding of women and knowing what women want.

I think women are the most intriguing creation, not to mention the most beautiful. Many of my friends often complain about their girl friends, saying that they are too complex too understand and too hard to satisfy. But I don’t agree to this- I think we guys are more at fault for we never try to know what they want in real and we expect them to adjust to every situation which is what leads to the bitterness in many relationships. Just a few days ago, when I met my friend Mark in the bar, he was looking disturbed. Upon my asking, Mark said he is pissed off with his girlfriend’s attitude. No matter how much he tries to woo her with expensive gifts, she is not letting go of her sulky mood. I asked Mark if he had ever tried to find out the reason of this. He told me they were actually planning to go on a vacation together, but they had to call it off as Mark got busy with his work.

Now I could understand the real problem between Mark and his girlfriend! While his girlfriend wanted to spend some quality time with him, Mark was not able to understand her need and trying in vain to cheer up her mood with expensive gifts. Women want their partners to understand and fulfill their desires without saying a word. I admit that if they had been a little more expressive with their needs and desires, it would have saved the misunderstandings that usually happen with each other. But maybe that’s what women want- to judge their partners. Anyways, when I explained Mark the real cause of the problem, and he realized his mistake. Now he is planning for a getaway with his girlfriend and everything seems to be normal between them.

Well, it’s tough to know what women want and moreover, all the time it’s not possible to understand what’s going on their mind. With due respect to women, I feel, at times, they need to speak their mind, desires and needs. More often than not, it is the lack of communication that creates problems in relationships. So, my appeal to all women- please, speak up for what you want. It’s definitely chivalrous to expect your partners to understand your desires, I mean that’s what women want most of the times,. However, if sometimes, your partner fails to understand what you want, it’s not that bad of just telling him, you can start with giving a hint or two about what you want. I guess all responsible guys out there will take the hints of their women seriously enough to figure out what women want actually, what say?

Online Dating Fills Life with Joy

I never knew the meaning of true love until I met my girl friend, Sarah on an online dating site. Before I met Sarah six months back, life was a complete mess for me. I was into a relationship and I really wanted it to work. But my then girlfriend had some other plans. She was into modeling and I had full support for her. However, things took a turn once she got pregnant. She didn’t want the child, and I want didn’t want to abort my baby. It was one of the happiest days in my life when my daughter was born. I had expected that after the birth of our baby, things would change for betterment. But guess I was wrong. When my daughter was only 6months old, her mother abandoned her to pursue her dream in the modeling world. I felt hurt, devastated initially but as I had a toddler to take care of, I didn’t have much time to ponder about what happened with me!

Time went by and soon Jenny (my daughter) became a six year chubby and cute girl. Life was good, for we are there for each other. Jenny doesn’t miss her mum so much coz I have always tried to be there with her whenever she needed me. About me, I was happy as Jenny was there for me. But of late, I had started feeling a bit lonely. I never got the time to be in a relationship earlier and frankly I wasn’t looking for it then with Jenny occupying most of my time. But now with Jenny grown up a bit, I was missing the companionship of someone. Then I got the idea of online dating from a friend. Initially I had no hope of bumping into my soul mate there. All I was looking for is having a casual dating experience.

I joined a leading online dating site. Starting from the first day it was a mind boggling experience for me. I joined the chat room of the online dating site and had a nice time chatting with some very interesting women there. After some days, I got a message from a profile who invited me to join her in the chat room. She was Sarah. When I met her for the first time in the chat room of the online dating site, I couldn’t feel any vibe. She seemed to be a nice, warm and friendly person. But gradually as we continued meeting day after day, I was amazed by her intellectuality. After 3months of chatting at the online dating site, we decided to meet for our first date outside the online dating site.

I was happily surprised when Sarah suggested meeting me at my home over dinner coz she wanted to meet Jenny. I was anticipating how Jenny would react, but to my surprise they got along very well even from the first time they met. Now Sarah frequents our home and treats Jenny just like her daughter. Jenny also often stays at her home at night. Though I feel a bit left out with their being close to each other, I am happy that Jenny has someone who gives her motherly love. Now we are planning to get married soon. Thanks to online dating, today life is looking afresh for me!

Datehookup Was A Great Leveler

Online dating can be a great leveler- I didn’t know this until I joined the singles forum on datehookup.com. About 5 years ago when I was in the university, I was in search of girl who I could hook up with in real. I tried several ways of finding myself a girl who could vibe with me. I went to the bars, on blind dates set up by Jack, my close buddy, and even tried my luck at a few single networks. I sure had a blast with all of them, but I was never able to find that someone who I could feel like spending the rest of my life with. I went on a ton of dates and even hooked up many single girls, it was all real fun being a part of those things. But at the end of it all, I would ask myself this question – what am I heading for?

This was when drew myself away from all those things and started thinking of trying to hook up with someone in a different way – I came with the idea of giving online dating a shot. So, I joined datehookup.com with the faintest of the idea on how to go about it. It was Jack who taught me how to set up my profile and browse along profiles of other members to see if some really appeal to you. After spending some time on it, I started sending messages to the other members and even got some from other members. But, I had little idea on what the next step should be.

One find day, I decided that I should join the singles forum on datehookup.com. I was actually trying to explore the options to bump into someone randomly and then mysteriously fall in love with her. I introduced myself to other members and then headed straight to the ‘Profile Reviews’ section where I could increase my chance of being reviewed by other members quickly. This worked out and I started getting lots of messages in my inbox the next month. It was overwhelming, so I asked Jack what I should do. He suggested that I wait and watch. Since I was focused on having a long-term relationship, I chose not to mess around with many and select only a few to see whom I could be really compatible with.

I started chatting with a few females on datehookup.com. Yana, of the several females, seemed very cordial and charming in her behavior. She had a great profile but she had no photo. We got really close and decided to meet each other offline. We both scheduled to meet at café near our university. My curious to meet her in person was at its height. I also had planned to ask her for a movie together afterwards. When I entered the café and gave her a call to confirm her arrival, she said she was already in, and told me to turn back. But, lo and behold – it was a lady of around 45. She smiled at me and I didn’t know what to do so I smiled back, but deep inside I knew it was the worst day of my life. I came straight back home after the disastrous day, taking the experience with a pinch of salt.

The Tale of Two Artists on Free Date Sites

You never know what life has there for you. I believe in facing life, whatever it comes. That is the reason why I try using every single thing that is known to me. Take for instance free date sites, free date sites are source of fun and pleasure. Many people are skeptical about it till date. But I used free date sites from the very first day I came to know about it. I’m a piano player and playing piano is something that I really enjoy in my life. But I could enjoy the free date sites in the same way I enjoy playing piano.

People like me are generally happy with whatever they posses. But that doesn’t mean that I never tried to get more. It is my thirst for knowledge that inspired me to give the free date sites a shot. The first time I visited free date sites I found them quite interesting. There are so many options available on free date sites that you can use and have fun. I spent my first day on free date sites by creating my profiles and going through the users’ guides on each site. I know that there are many scams found on the web related to free date sites and it is wise to follow the instructions.

Gradually, I became an expert in this field and I had many friends on the free date sites. The best thing I love to do on free date sites is chatting. I feel that knowing the art of conversation is the best way to success on free date sites. As I’m skilled in that art I have many friends from each part of the world. The girl I frequently talk to on free date sites is Catherine. When I visited her profile for the first time I was surprised to know that she is also loves piano; we share same passion, eh. Perhaps it is for this reason that I had developed a soft corner for this girl. We share many aspects of playing piano while chatting on free date sites.

Besides our frequent chat on free date sites, I and Catherine would talk a lot over phone. We had few dates out of the free date sites. But I still remember the occasion when we met on the night of piano playing competition. It was a state level competition and Catherine had participated in that. She was looking gorgeous in golden attire; I was stunned to see her. But what made me really attracted towards her is the way she played piano that night. I had no idea that she is such a skilled player. She won the competition and I felt the joy of a winner.

I expressed my love for her that night and she accepted it. Thanks to the free date sites that enabled me to know this great artist and the wonderful girl. We are going to tie the nuptial bond in the next month. It has been possible only due to free date sites.

Dating Sites are Full of Pleasant Surprises

Now-a-days many people throng to dating sites to find the perfect date for them. Dating online through dating sites is something that more and more people are looking into because it is relatively risk free. Who wants to waste time out on the town with a date that may or may not work out? Instead, now you have the option of looking for people at the dating sites and choosing to interact with them for a period of time before you decide to meet them. What’s more, there are many dating sites which are free. It means no credit card charges, no bills, no hassle; you can just enjoy online dating at these sites.

Well so far so good, but when I look at my friends, they seem to have gone crazy about these dating sites. I used to wonder, what the fuss is all about. What makes my friends so impulsive? In fact my best friend Robby is completely addicted to these dating sites. He doesn’t even look for any serious relationship or true love, but still he would hover around these dating sites whenever he gets time. Being a fitness instructor, Robby had a pretty good reputation among women at his gym. And as far as I know Robby, he wouldn’t miss any chance to have a nice time with the women who frequent to his gym. Then why the craziness for the dating sites? One day upon my asking, Robby told me there is a special charm at the dating sites which is not there in casual dating. Imagine liking someone only by interacting with her and without meeting her. Of course all the time, your choice won’t turn out to be good and you know you did a mistake ultimately when you decide to meet your date. But then it also happens in blind dates.

Don’t know why but after what Robby told me about dating sites, I felt a bit influenced. It’s been a while since I was single. So I thought of giving dating sites a shot. I chose a prominent free dating site so that even if I won’t find any date of my choice I have nothing to lose. The design, features, profiles; everything about the dating site was captivating. After registering at the dating site, I decided to start from the chat room. The dating site had a staggering number of profiles chatting then. I joined them and before I knew, I was there for four long hours! Now I understood why my friends were crazy about the dating sites.

Soon I followed the footsteps of my other friends. My days are not complete if I am not online at the dating site for some time. I met some very interesting guys there. However, of late I have a huge crush on Jack, whom I met at a chat room of the dating site some days back. I guess he also likes me a lot. Don’t know what the future holds for me, but as of now I am enjoying my dating experience at the dating site.